We all want the good times with our spouses. But, good times don’t just happen. In this post we will talk about 5 ways ways we can develop these good times? Check it out what commitment, quality love making, be spontaneous, praying, and enjoying life has to do with making for better times together.
1. We must be committed to growing the relationship.
A deep sense of security, knowing that your partner is committed to you and fully faithful to you, will be at the heart of a great relationship, and ultimately, a sizzling sex life.
2. Plan your days for time to be together for quality love-making
It will take planning or our sex lives can easily get squeezed out of our schedules. And when we have the time we may not have the energy or focus to be fully satisfying to each other. This is modern-day problem.
3. Prepare to be spontaneous
You need to work to improve the experience, to understand each other, and to guarantee privacy – nothing will derail intimacy faster than little kids knocking on the door in the middle of it! Unplug the phones and lock the doors. Do what it takes to prepare for having great sexual times together.
4. Pray together
Ask God to bless your growing understanding of each other, your marital relationship and your lovemaking. Actually pray before or after your times of intimacy. (Praying during can be complicated!)
5. Learn to enjoy each season of your love life
Finally, remember that the sexual relationship is one that develops over time and through many seasons of the marriage. Grow together as a couple in both your friendship and your intimacy. God gave us all good things to enjoy, and sexuality is one of His best gifts to every married couple.
Debbie Kessler loves her husband, Wally Kessler. She is a southern girl who loves Jesus and loves building up people to do Good Works of Love.