"Beauty is the illumination of the soul." ~John O'Donohue
Today's woman may wonder if she measures up to what she thinks her man finds alluring and deserving of his attention. You may think he desires the long legs, full lips, blue eyes of one matching the vision on Angelina Jolie. Research has revealed that men are excited by the visual stimulus and that is good news. Yes, men are attracted visually but, not for the body parts you may think. Before I go any further, I want to distinguish the difference in looking at women and being drawn to a woman--attraction.
Your man loves to see a beautiful woman. It jacks up his testosterone and revs him up to make love. But remember many men will not go up to a beautiful woman and talk with her. She may be beautiful, but he wants more than a beautiful creature for a wife. Your man married YOU. And your man wants you to be attracted to him--to desire him. The good news about his delight by the visual is that you possess a beautiful body part he wants. It is beautiful to all men. Your man is attracted to your SMILE. Your smile will attract your man over and over again through out the years. You will become more beautiful as your marriage grows.
Yes, you are your man's idea of beauty. Lean in and enjoy this aspect of his love for you. Put in the back of your mind, never to be lost. And when your man approaches you for anything, pause, listen and smile. You will endear his heart to you every time you smile.
So be beautiful and let your soul be illuminated by your smile.
Your Love Coach,
Debbie Kessler loves her husband, Wally Kessler. She is a southern girl who loves Jesus and loves building up people to do Good Works of Love.