Have you scratched your head wondering if there is another way to tell your honey “I love you”? Many lovers send flowers and this tradition has continued mainly because of the sweet aroma of roses. Jewelry is also a wonderful and beautiful way to say how much you love your lover. Roses and jewelry can be expensive luxury gifts, and are usually only sent on special occasions like anniversaries. Luxury gifts do a beautiful job of decorating your lover with your love. But how about saying “I love you” once a day or once a week or once a month. Could get expensive to tell him/her about your undying love. Don’t fret, I share some of my favorite easy and inexpensive ways to tell of your love.
Say it with Chalk: use the kiddies chalk and write a love note where they usually park the car. Use your imagination by asking them out on a special date or the qualities they possess that are attractive to you.
Say it with Love Letters: yes, the simple are the most overlooked. When you begin writing a love letter it will free you to express more than you could say out loud. It is so loving to get a love letter in your car, in your clothes drawer, your pocket, in your favorite chair, or on your pillow at night.
Say it with Dance: a sensual way to express your love is by dancing. Try erotic or Latino music that allows your hips to sway. Use little “come hither” gestures and smile or lick your lips. Works really well for men love this! (This is my favorite)
Say it in the Tub: Another easy way to say “I love you” is to surprise your lover by asking to wash their back. Be sure to gently and lovingly apply soap, then sensually wash their back. The slower the better. Be sure to reach down further than the back. Nice surprise
Say it on the Mirror: Before your lover gets out of the tub or shower, while the bathroom is steamy, write “I love you” or a suggestive statement on the mirror. He/She will call you back into the bathroom for your thank you.
Say it with Cell Phone: Easy, easy-but make it sexy and loving. Text your lover what you want to do for them sexually. (Just be sure you text the your lover and not a wrong number!)
My challenge to you is to comment below the response you receive after using these easy ways during your week. If you care to share your “easy ways of saying I love you” I would love to read them also.
Love God, Love Yourself and Love your Spouse~ You can have a Happy Marriage
Coach Debbie Kessler
Debbie Kessler loves her husband, Wally Kessler. She is a southern girl who loves Jesus and loves building up people to do Good Works of Love.