How Can a Love Plan of Action Help Your Marriage?
Are you fully in control of your love life? Is your marriage meeting your needs? Do you have a clear and definite idea of what your marriage should look like? And are you currently taking the necessary steps to create your ideal marriage?
If not, then you run the risk of experiencing a failing marriage. We have all heard that those who fail to plan, plan to fail. Ouch! This is the key to the awesome marriage coaching provided through the Happy Marriage Programs. A Love Plan of Action that is designed with your marriage in mind. Your plan will be what meets your needs, not some other couple’s needs. Your needs are considered and will be the thrust for building a Happy Marriage.
All too often we neglect to work on our marriages and then we find ourselves feeling unloved, unappreciated and misunderstood. The big three: Communication, Lack of Intimacy and Conflict are in the forefront of everything happening in a marriage. The big three cause a lot of problems for those once “love birds”. See if you can recognize yourself:
Todd goes to work each day, thinking that his work is showing Mary how much he loves her and the kids. Mary one day doesn’t kiss him good bye and is too busy with the kids to even say hello when Todd returns home from work.
Weeks pass by; Tom doesn’t want to say anything because he is sure that Mary is mad at him. He doesn’t want to cause Mary to be upset more than she already apparently is. Mary is sure that Todd is seeing someone else because he is avoiding her. He never tells her he loves her anymore.
One day, a debit was forgotten to be subtracted from the checkbook causing a major loss of money. Mary was responsible, but had let that one receipt fall by the way. Tom already feeling rejected saw this as Mary’s revenge toward him. All the ugly thoughts came spilling out of the mouths defending, intimidating and blaming.
Unfortunately the couple had never learned healthy communication and had not understood the dangers of negative thoughts for their spouse. This couple is heading down a slippery slope toward divorce. With marriage education and a specialized Love Plan of Action couples like Todd and Mary CAN refresh and revive their marriage.
In order to have a happy marriage, you must be proactive. You have to take charge and change the way you think about your marriage and spouse. Once you take back control of your marriage you will soon realize you will need to know what you want in a marriage. What does a happy marriage look like to you and your spouse? If you never considered what you wanted and worked to get it, you end up with a less than happy and unfulfilled marriage, all by chance. You will want to know what you want and then have a plan to get there and start moving!
Love Plan of Action is a structured way doing just that, take a look:
So let’s start the process now!
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Debbie Kessler loves her husband, Wally Kessler. She is a southern girl who loves Jesus and loves building up people to do Good Works of Love.