As soon as a couple starts to share their hurts and desires for a happy marriage it is very clear that they want to love each other, but they are frustrated with trying. They think the role they play as husband or wife is more like a guessing game. A game of wills with no instructions. A game with no rules. "I tried this. He didn't respond."; "She acts like what I do has no value to her."; "I don't feel loved by you." These are common statements I hear too often.I want to blame love for the mess these couples are in. Love made them fall head over heels for each other and then left them in the middle of the night. No wonder couples feel so out of sorts. Couples are not prepared for this kind of feeling. The feeling of being with a partner who does not know how to love. But blaming love is like blaming the sun for making us hot. I kindly explain to my couples how this situation comes about and that it is NOT their fault. I explain that all that is required is a heart that will not give up. With a heart that chooses to love all things are possible and love can bloom again. Relief and hope rises in their eyes. Now, the real love education starts. In a short time, a couple will see that marriage help is possible and how powerful it (marriage help) and prayer is for marriage restoration. The couple is more than victorious. They take marriage educational skills and knowledge that will sustain them for years. I must also add on a personal note--I love their "aha" moments. The teacher is delighted!Scheduling your session with me is EASY. Just call me. Do not worry marriage help is available.Your Love Coach ~Debbie 770-307-7759
Debbie Kessler loves her husband, Wally Kessler. She is a southern girl who loves Jesus and loves building up people to do Good Works of Love.