Abusive relationships often leave you with the feeling that life will never be better, but I’m here to tell you how it can be better. I felt at times I would never find the love I so longed for. I dreamed of a man who would love me more that him self. That kind of love fills your heart with courage to do the impossible. I was taught very strong biblical teachings about marriage and how submission was supposed to work. However, it lead me to a very dark path of abuse which I felt as if I was locked in a cage with no way of escape. I felt at times that I would never have the love I needed and and share life in harmony. I knew in my heart that I had to make real life changes in order to survive. I never dreamed that I would find the love of my life. Yet, I did find the love of my life. I never forget to tell him how much he means to me and how I enjoy being married to him.
Wally and I both have gone through the pain and disappointment of divorce like you very well may have. We have learned that with true love and loving actions a marriage can be a happy marriage for a life time.
I met Wally in 2000 after answering a pen pal letter. We built a relationship online for three months before actually meeting. His personality along with his integrity gave me the ability to trust in love again. We have been married for 15 years and there has never been a day since that I have taken him for granted. I know how rare it is to have the kind of relationship that we have ... not because it is so hard to do but because most people just don't know how.
I did something that most people don't do ... I believed in the principle of sowing and reaping. I vowed to give love even though love was not given back. And after my divorce I vowed I would find what makes love relationships work. Surprisingly, that knowledge and understanding came from the wisdom and understanding of the human soul.
Understanding the temperament of your spouse gives you the knowledge and understanding that brings peace and joy. How many times have you said or heard someone say, "they just don't understand me." ? Learning how to love my spouse and myself was the most useful thing I could ever do.
I am certified to administer the temperament testing known as Arno Profile System. This is a tool that is included in my marriage & life coaching programs. It will bring knowledge and wisdom for you and your relationship, no matter how long you have been together. Now is the day to start loving. I have been sharing this knowledge helping couples just like you to find love in a selfish world. May love abound in your life. To learn more about temperaments in marriage.
Debbie Kessler, Marriage Expert
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"Love Coach Debbie was truly a blessing to us. She was exceptionally easy to work with. She provided understanding that we never knew about each other. Her assessments were right on target for what was hurting our marriage. She gave us biblical hope, God’s love and real world applications that are still working in our marriage. She understood how we wanted to have our dream marriage and helped us design and plan for that marriage we had in our dreams. We could not have been more pleased with the marriage care we received. Keith & Jane-11 years of marriage."